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Many parents, guardians and carers are concerned about how their children, whatever their age, are feeling at present. The coronavirus outbreak is having an impact on everybody’s lives. Schools and colleges are re-opening with new rules and social distancing,, contact with family and friends continues to be limited, and social and leisure activities are restricted – with local lockdowns adding further pressures.
At this time, it is understandable that children and young people may be feeling anxious and upset. Their life may feel unpredictable and out of control and their usual mechanisms of support through friends, family members and professionals more limited.
During the COVID-19 pandemic NHS services are working as usual so it’s important to remember to ask for help and not hold back.
What should I do if I am worried about my child’s or child that I care for mental health and I think it’s getting serious?
- Make time to listen to them: Create a calm safe space where they can communicate how they are feeling without judgement.
- Try to understand the problems and provide reassurance that you have heard them and are there to help. The problems could be something you are not aware of such ordon’t notice at first,such as:
- Relationship problems with friends and family
- Being bullied
- Experience of traumatic events such as abuse
- Self-harm or suicide by someone close to them
- Low self-esteem
- Or it might be something more noticeable, such as:
- A recent death of a friend or family memberWorries about schoolwork,exams or exam results
- Coping with a chronic illness or disability
- Substance misuse problems
- Coping with pre-existing mental health problems such as anxiety, depression and eating disorders
- Take time to talk to with the child or young person you care for: This is particularly key in relation to children and young people, who may feel overwhelmed by a changing situation which isn’t being clearly explained in a way they can understand. Some young people may find it easier to talk while doing something together such as playing in the park, going for a walk, painting or other activities. This has been written by young people, for young people and may help you to explain things to them.
- Keep an eye on the child or young person you care for: Look out for symptoms that your child’s mental health may be deteriorating, including symptoms of anxiety and low mood or worrying changes in behavior. Seek specialist health advice and support and increase vigilance, including checking if they are accessing websites about self-harm,suicide or pro-eating disorders
- Help the child or young person you care for do positive activities which means they aren’t isolating themselves: Positive activities including exercise and appropriate contact with family and friends can provide a distraction from negative thoughts and may help them open up about their feelings.
- Support children and young people with disabilities: Children and young people with disabilities including those with autism spectrum disorder, learning disabilities and ADHD may find the impact of coronavirus particularly difficult to manage. It is important to explain change and manage any anxiety and distress they may be experiencing. Seek immediate advice if they are already in contact with specialist health and social care services or contact your GP. The National Autistic Society have helpful advice on their website on how to deal with this uncertain time with the coronavirus.
- Seek specialist advice and support quickly if you think they have suicidal thoughts or are self-harming: It is important that you do not ignore these and that you speak to a GP urgently to get the right help and support – or contact some of the services detailed below. If there is a threat to life, call 999.
- Finally, as a parent or carer, look after your own mental health too: This will help you to best support yourself and those you care about. Remember to talk to your family and friends about how you are feeling, and seek help for yourself from the NHS and other support services if it’s all getting too much. It’s okay not to feel okay.
What can I do if I am worried about my child right now?
During the COVID-19 pandemic services are still there for you, so don’t hold back asking for help.
If they have taken an overdose or need urgent medical help, then call 999 or take them to the nearest A&E.
If you notice any physical injuries on your child, such as deep cuts or burns then you need to contact NHS 111 online or your GP for advice.
If your child needs urgent mental health support or advice, check nhs.uk for services in your area, including 24/7 mental health crisis support.
Anyone in a crisis can also text 85258 for SHOUT the UK’s first 24/7 crisis text service on, free on all major mobile networks, for anyone in crisis anytime.
If your child is currently being supported by a Children and Young People’s Mental Health Services (sometimes known as CAMHS), Paediatric Services or Children’s Social Care then talk to them if you are worried about your child.
If you are not sure what to do, you can contact your GP for advice, check NHS 111 online.
Where can I get help and support for me?
It’s okay not to feel okay and looking after a child or young person who is unwell with their mental health is a big deal. The NHS has online information on how to access help and support. Remember to look after yourself as well as your loved ones, and you matter too.
There are other support services available, too:
- YoungMinds Parents Helpline is available for parents, guardians and carers and you can call them on 0808 802 5544; 9.30am to 4pm on weekdays.
- Samaritans is also available and can be called on 0116 123 or email them at firstname.lastname@example.org
- Public Health England’s Every Mind Matters campaign can also provide you with helpful tips and sign posting for you and the child or young person you look after
For parents and carers worried about their child’s eating problems or disorder as well as contacting your local Children and Young People’s Community Eating Disorder team or asking your GP for a referral, you can also refer to BEAT’s advice and get in touch with them for support via their helpline on 0808 801 0677.
The NHS has also produced advice for children and young people, which you can find here.